oh....aim ak ke mane??

hm...actually arini ak ada a few qs utk ak taye diri ak..nice to know..ak student this one faculty wat ak X PENAH pikir nk jejak pun...but somehow tickling my days with the seniors, classmate and dean today...ak somehow wondering..why am i here?? what is actually my aim when ak enter this fac but why this course!!! ape aim ak dlm sehari2 ak hidup ni..ye la..of coz aim kita sebagai manusia nk hambakan diri kat Allah...tp ak still don't get it when ari tu ak terclick the application for this fac and why ak bargain about this fac to my bro and family...

ape fokus ak sebenarnye...arini..ak dgr kat radio pg2 kul 7++ kat ikim.fm kita kn ada fokus dlm life ni. the penceramah bg contoh...kat this one paper ad satu je titik hitam and that paper is innocently plain white colour. all students, when are being asked about what they see at the paper, they say that they saw a tiny little dot..then it happened that this sorg budak..angkat tangan and kata dia nmpk ketas a4 putih.see the difference...how an aim in our life akan change our every little view we have towards somthing....so ape ek ak aim???hm.. :(

nk thu x...td pun kat radio...the same penceramah stress that the 1st sight love is not quite exist..(er..asal ak wat msuk contoh nih...ei !!!!!) actually it all start with the 1st impression you made to someone.kita msti kata 1st impression is everything it is...btul...bab kalau kita dah aim kat that someone...everything kita nampak adalah ape wt kita nk nmpak...see?? kalau kita nk nmpk that someone always smile at you, you will...kalau kita nk tgk dia order same food as we did, we will.. kalau kita nk nmpk ari ni dia pakai same shirt color as we do, we will..crazy kan...how our mind work..amazing x??x caya try la.. tp aim la dulu..

so sum up all, kita CHOOSE to see what we want to see..  then mulalah kita kata tu love at 1st sight la..korg dah jupa crush barula.hati bedebar...tgn peluh2...tido asyik mimpi dia la...bla...bla...haha..wei the one that working the muscle of tgn, adrenaline, visual image all tak ke brain ke...sape punyer....korang punyer.....

so tulah....we choose what we want to be, we aim at it straigtforward and go strive for it...sbb x rugi kalau kita strive at something even when everyone kata that's impossible la....bab sebab this same reason la jgk mentol ada, Istanbul Islam punyer, Perang Khandak kita menang and just don't forget....ples..ALLAH slalu ad dgn kita walau time tu kita x igt kat DIA lgsg.....so see?? you never alone..even when everybody leave you, kita still ad ALLAH and kalau kita kita beriman dlm erti sbnr2 nya.. org2 mukmin yang khusyuk solatnya pun bersama kita...cuma kita x penah sedar.

InsyaAllah..

STORY TIME

I have  copied and pasted others articles i got through when i browsed internet for quite some time.
what now...i want to share a little story i got when i watch numbers of movies today..(having a lot of time,eh..)

1. three idiots..starred Amir Khan, Kareena Kapoor and all

Some say that we have to struggle hard to gain success.

This story teaches me the opposite.

We have to have passion to do things we most like

Things where our passion lay on

Only then the success finds the way to us

We have to achieve excellence so that we gain success

Contoh kan...

Look at Albert Einstein

He did countless experiments to achieve a bulb

He had passion on the making of the bulb

He had passion in the physic field

Tengok lagi kat Leonardo di Caprio

He know that the literature development during his period( Renaissance ke...or before) is under development

But still

He created a phenomenon with the Romeo and Juliet and all the creative dramas

Sometime….

Our passion is unacceptable by both parents and society

Why go against them eh…( x de keje kan…)

But what for if you do things you are not enjoyed with

As for me

Human can change over time

They may get angry with us and all

But still they are human

They may have little or more humanity in them

……(only robot and monster have no humanity)

But sometime we are confused over somethings

The things may be as big as deciding the soul mate or as small as choosing ice cream favours

We want all choice but were asked to make sole choice

No bargain there

Hence a verse from Surah Al- Baqarah in Al-Quran Al-Karim crossed my mind

It is not always the bad things is bad for us and not always the good things is good for us

It can be either way

Allahuakbar….Maha Mendengar Maha Mengetahui

P/S : Pesanan orang tua…

Jangan putuskan hubungan kita dengan Allah dan orang tua…x kisah la apa situasi pun...

Well easy to say than to practice eh….well I want to challenge you all( include myself)

Seek the passion and go for it

(since I have no real passion on anything,I do hope I found one or more real soon….i want to enjoy life to the fullest before anything)

More reviews will follow up soon….  J

Types of Mental Illness

as always, this article is not mine.

however I do hope you will enjoy it since I feel good when i share  it...

http://fresharticles.info/articles/other/types-of-mental-illness-43.txt

Mental illnesses are conditions that affect the mind and contribute to maladaptive behaviors, and they are generally classified by the mental faculty affected and the symptoms presented. Sometimes there can be some overlap between classes because different mental illnesses are often co-morbid with each other, but regardless of classification, all types of mental illness can significantly interfere with daily living. According to modern classification, the more common types of mental illness include anxiety disorders, mood disorders, psychotic disorders, eating disorders, impulse control and addiction disorders, and personality disorders.(so many disorder meh…)

Anxiety disorders are characterized by an excessive reaction of fear to certain situations. People with anxiety disorders might feel accelerated heartbeat, shaking and sweating when coming into contact with the source of their anxiety. Some examples of anxiety disorders are generalized anxiety disorder, obsessive compulsive disorder, panic disorder, social anxiety disorder, and post-traumatic stress disorder.

Mood disorders affect the way people experience emotions over a period of time. It’s normal to experience a range of emotions at different times of our lives, but people with mood disorders might feel chronically sad or unusually manic. Mood disorders include depression and bipolar disorder.

Psychotic disorders distort the way people think and perceive reality. People with psychotic disorders often experience hallucinations and delusional beliefs, like hearing voices or believing that someone is after them. Examples of psychotic disorders are schizophrenia and delusional disorder. Sometimes symptoms of a psychotic disorder can result from taking drugs or having physical head or brain injury.

Eating disorders involve distorted eating patterns and attitudes about food and weight. People with eating disorders often have an unrealistic body image and an obsession with achieving that ideal, but eating disorders can involve eating too much as well as eating too little or purging to lose weight. Common eating disorders are anorexia, bulimia, and binge eating disorder.

Impulse control and addiction disorders are characterized by giving into impulses and engaging in behavior that can be harmful to the patient and to others. People can have addictions to specific behaviors as well as substances. Addiction disorders include alcoholism, compulsive gambling and sexual addiction.

Personality disorders affect a person’s disposition in such a way that their personality negative impacts the various areas of their life, like work and social relationships. They might exhibit extreme forms of certain personality traits, like being unusually introverted or overly sensitive to criticism. Examples of personality disorders are antisocial personality disorder, narcissistic personality disorder and borderline personality disorder.

Less common types of mental illness are dissociative disorders, somatoform disorders, sexual disorders and many others.

 

Dissociative disorders involve a distortion of consciousness and memory.(er….. ) 

Somatoform disorders are psychological conditions in which people experience physical symptoms with no known cause.(sihir kah….) 

Sexual disorders can involve inappropriate sexual desires and behavior and the classification includes gender identity disorder, which has created controversy for considering transsexualism a disorder. 

HOWEVER!!!!!!!

The way we categorize types of mental illnesses is constantly changing, and disorders don’t always fall so neatly into the categories that exist. (hm…..suka2).As psychology learns more about the nature of mental illnesses, the way we classify types of mental illness could change significantly in the future.

This article is taken at http://www.successcds.net/Articles/Know-your-Learning-Style.php

....now I'm wonder what is my type,...

k.enjoy...!

'A learning style is a way of learning. YOUR preferred learning style is the way in which YOU learn best. Three learning styles that are often identified in students are the Auditory Learning Style, the Visual Learning Style, and the Tactile(Sense of Touch - tangible). Read about each of these learning styles to identify YOUR preferred learning style.

Are you an Auditory Learner?

Auditory Learners learn best when information is presented in an auditory language format. Do you seem learn best in classes that emphasize listening to teacher lectures and class discussions? Does listening to audio tapes help you learn better? Do you find yourself reading aloud or talking things out to gain better understanding? If YES, you are probably an Auditory Learner.

Are you a Visual Learner?

Visual Learners learn best when information is presented in a written language format or in another visual format such as pictures or diagrams. Do you do best in classes in which teachers do a lot of writing at the Blackboard, provide clear NOTES, and make extensive use of an overhead projector? Do you try to remember information by creating pictures in your mind? Do you take detailed written notes from your textbooks and in class? If YES, you are probably a Visual Learner.

Are you a Tactile Learner (Sense of Touch – tangible)?

Tactile Learners learn best in hands-on learning settings in which they canphysically manipulate something in order to learn about it. Do you learn best when you can move about and handle things? Do you do well in classes in which there is a lab component? Do you learn better when you have an actual object in your hands rather than a picture of the object or a verbal or written description of it? If YES, you are probably a Tactile Learner.

Your learning style is your strength . First – Think about it, Take help of your parents or friends to identify what your learning style is . Go with it whenever you can. When you can choose a class, try to choose one that draws heaviest on your learning style. If you are given an option to choose to choose your teacher, try to choose one who's teaching method best matches your learning style. When you choose a professional career and future career, keep your learning style firmly in mind. And here is an unconditional Guarantee - your whole life will be better. Stop Reading here. Think……Think….Think – Pick up your Notebook or writing pad and start writing in clear words “MY LEARNING STYLE”

About me – I am a Visual Learner. I love reading and I grasp / understand things easily when I read or see a picture or diagram. I am not an Auditory Learner as my mind gets distracted easily listening to Lectures or audio tapes. I am also not a Tactile Learner as I am not comfortable with actually handling things.

What is your Learning Style?

pardon...the 'I' stated above is NOT ME. 
it belongs to the writer of the article.
whatever, dig out your learning style.it helps you approve...insyaAllah.

Studying Hard - Tips to de-stress and Improve Concentration

This article is taken at http://www.successcds.net/selfimprovement/yoga-excercises-to-destress.html

Good luck for those that is sitting for exam (including me), pray for me...please.

Enjoy!

For those of you who are appearing for the forthcoming Board Exams and Entrance Exams, here are tips that can help minimise the stress. A few tips to to help you relax and improve your concentration

● Keep your mind work-oriented instead of result-oriented. Do you work best. Have faith that whatever result you get, is the best for you.

● Long hours of static studying affects the lower body and the blood circulation. Change your position and if possible, the location as well, every now and then.

● Staying awake at night to study is actually going against the law of nature. For human beings, it is best to study actively in the daytime and follow the ‘early-to-bed-and-early-to-rise’ routine.

● Have lemon juice twice or three times a day.

● After reading for some time, close your eyes and reflect for a few minutes in silence. It will help you relax and in retaining whatever has been learn.

● Do not panic at the last minute. At that time do slow pranayama. Breathing in from the nose and breathing out from the mouth and suspending the breath for four seconds will be great help.

As Hansaji Jayadeva Yogendra of the Yoga Institute says, “Examinations actually provide a good learning opportunity. It helps in concentration.” She feels that a person should give time pressure to every act. In this manner, one will be aware of the time being spent on one activity and will find more time for other valuable things in life.

MotiVatED YouRselF!!!!

The most difficult person to FACE in life is yourself.

A GRATEFUL heart is the cure for loneliness.

Do not judge the FUTURE by the past.

Never stop reaching for the GOAL in front.

Hold on to your BELIEF, then you will overcome difficulties.

TRIVIALITIES can accumulate to an important episode.

Kind DEEDS can bring good returns.

DREAM is our motivation in life.

WISDOM is to understand that the world is ever-changing.

SINCERITY is a natural spring of water.

Danger brings us TRUE friends.

SMILE is the first step of a new life.

So, go on with your life with a new spirit.

Everyday is a new day.

- Artikel iluvislam.com

One Muslim changed another man’s life

Muhammad Ahmed shared at 07:20:54 am on November 5, 2010 |

Tag(s): American, Muslim, Pakistan

 

New York (CNN) — Six months ago, a Long Island convenience store owner turned a would-be robbery into an act of compassion. On Wednesday, the shoplifter made amends with a $50 bill and a thank you letter for saving him from a life of crime.
The story began in May 2009, when Mohammad Sohail of Shirley, New York, was closing his Shirley Express convenience store one night. Security camera footage from that evening shows a man wielding a baseball bat barging into the store and demanding money.

Sohail had a rifle ready and quickly aimed it directly in the robber’s face, forcing the man to drop the bat and lay on the ground. Unbeknownst to the man, Sohail never loads his gun.

According to Sohail, the man immediately started to plead with him, tearfully saying, “I’m sorry, I have no food. I have no money. My whole family is hungry. Don’t call the police. Don’t shoot me.”

“When I see him starting crying [those] things, I really feel bad for him,” said Sohail. “I say, oh man, this is something different.”

Sohail made the man pledge never to rob anybody ever again, then gave the man $40 and a loaf bread. Sohail, who is from Pakistan, said the man then wanted to be a Muslim like him, so he recited an Islamic oath and gave the would-be robber the name Nawaz Sharif Zardari.

Sohail went to get some milk, but when he returned the man had fled with the money and food.Both Mohammad Sohail and Suffolk County Police have no idea who the man is. After the May incident, Sohail explained that he will “absolutely not” be pressing charges, though police are still investigating the case.

Over the past six months, Sohail’s story of sympathy and kindness has inspired many across the country.

The Shirley Express store has received numerous letters of admiration.

“No person has ever moved my spirit the way you did. From your biggest admirer,” one letter says. “Great men are capable of great acts. You are a great American,” another reads.

He has also received several checks with such messages for “a couple hundred dollars” in total, says Sohail. He has made a point to give this money “to the people” by offering free bagels, rolls and coffee in his store every night after 9 o’clock.

But the envelope that arrived on Wednesday came as a surprise. Postmarked November 11 without a return address, it enclosed a $50 bill and a note apparently from the would-be robber.

The typed letter begins, “You change My Life (sic),” and goes on to say that the man is sorry for his actions six months ago.

“At the time I had No money No food on my table No Job, and nothing for my family. I know that it was wrong, but I had know (sic) choice. I needed to feed My family. When You had That gun to my head I was 100% that I was going to die,” reads the letter.

The letter says Sohail’s acts inspired him to become a “True Muslim” and that his life has changed dramatically.

“I’m very happy that somebody got to change his life,” Sohail said. “If he is a maybe criminal, maybe is not anymore. So now he is a good person in this community and I’m very glad for that. He’s staying out of trouble, he’s not in a jail, he’s taking care of his family.”